MENTORING AND MENTORSHIP

MENTORING AND MENTORSHIP

By Fredy E. Chavala (King Chavala-Mc)

v  What is Mentorship?

v  Who is the Mentor?

v  Who need a Mentor?

v  How Mentorship is been done?

v  Why is so important to a Mentor/Mentors?

v  What differentiate A Mentor from a Teacher, Coach and Role Model?

v  How can we rate the successfulness of a Mentorship?

MENTORSHIP

Is a personal/close/social developmental/future oriented relationship in which a more experienced/skilled/certified/trusted/knowledgeable person (Whom we call <a Mentor>) helps to guide a less experienced or knowledgeable person (Whom we call <the protégé or mentee>) who aspire and desire to reach higher levels, and a good mentee always performs above his Mentor’s records!

IN GENERAL; Mentorship is a relationship formed between a mentor and mentee with the goal of sharing knowledge/wisdom/psychological support and expertise between the mentor and the mentee. It can be a formal relationship with written goals and scheduled meeting times or it can as informal as an occasional chat or email exchange.

MENTORING; is that process of transferring informal knowledge and experience from a Mentor to a Mentee

A MENTOR; is a person/friend, coach, guide, tutor, facilitator and trusted advisor who guides a less experienced person by building trust/capacity/faith/hope/confidence and modelling positive behaviors/right attitudes and perfect reactions to Realities.

A mentor might be older or younger than a mentee but what matter is his experience/contents in a certain area of expertise.

A MENTEE; is a student, protégé, apprentice and eager learner. Is someone who wants to learn from someone who knows and seeks their valuable advice in order to grow personally/or professionally.

An effective mentor understands that his or her role is to be dependable, engaged, authentic and tuned into the needs of the mentee.

IN SWAHILI

“Kwa Kiswahili <Mentor> ni <Mshauri> , ingawa Kiingereza kwa tafsiri hiyohiyo kina maneno kama Counsellor, Advisor, Guider, Consultant n.k, lakini kimantiki kila neon lina muktadha wake na vivyohivyo Mentorship ni utaratibu au mpango au kitendo cha kuhamisha ujuzi,mtaji wa kijamii(social capital) na msaada wa kisaikolojia kusiko rasmi, maana rasmi ni kama shuleni ambako unajifunza kwa miongozo maalum(syllabus), kutoka kwa mtu mwenye ujuzi/uzoefu ama taarifa nyingi Zaidi kwenda yule asiyenazo ama mwenye uzoefu kiasi….sawasawa na eneo la kazi/ujuzi ama kipaji na haya nyanaweza kufanyika kwa umbali au uso kwa uso, kwa njia za mitandao na inaweza kuwa ni kwa muda mfupi au muda mrefu…hayo yote yanategemea sana Ukubwa wa tasnia na uhitaji/mahusiano ya hawa wawili na mazingira/uhalisia”

HOW MENTORSHIP IS BEEN DONE?

Mentoring techniques:

The idea/focus of mentorship is all about developing a whole person and so techniques are so broad/variety and thus wisdom is highly required to be applied effectively

Here are best five common and proved to be effective Mentoring techniques;

i.                    Accompanying; making a commitment in a caring way, this involves taking part in the learning process side-by-side with the learner.

ii.                  Sowing; mentors are often confronted with the difficulty of preparing the learner before s/he is ready to change. Sowing is necessary when you know that what you say may not be understood or even accepted to learners at first but will make sense and have value to the mentee when the situation requires it.

iii.                Catalyzing; when change reaches a critical level of pressure, learning can escalate. Here the mentor chooses to plunge the learner right into change, provoking a different way of thinking, a change in identity or a re-ordering of values.

iv.                 Showing; this is making something understandable or using your own example to demonstrate a skill or activity. You show what you are talking about, you show by your own behavior.

v.                   Harvesting; here the mentor focuses on “picking the ripe fruit”: it is usually used to create awareness of what was learned by experience and to draw conclusions. The key questions here are: “What have you learned?”, “How useful is it?”

N.B; Different techniques may be used by mentors according to the situation and the mindset of the mentee.

MULTIPLE MENTORS; A new upcoming trend in the world now is having multiple mentors. This can be helpful because we can all learn from each other. Having more than one mentor will widen the knowledge of the person being mentored. There are different mentors who may have different strengths.

TYPES OF MENTORS:

v  Profession or Trade Mentor: This is someone who is currently in the trade/profession you are entering. A mentor like this this will be someone you can discuss ideas regarding the field and also be introduced to key and important people that you should know.

v  Industry Mentor: This is someone who doesn’t just focus on the profession, but this mentor will be able to give insight on the industry as a whole. You will get to know all key things about the industry.

v  Organization Mentor: Politics in the organizations are constantly changing. It is important to be knowledgeable about the values, strategies, and products that are within your company…An organization mentor can clarify missions and strategies and give clarity when needed.

v  Work Process Mentor: This mentor can help to get things done quickly and efficiently.

v  Technology Mentor:  This mentor will help with technical breakdowns, advice on systems that may work better than what you are currently using.

THERE ARE CAN BE MAMY MORE TYPES OF MENTORE, JUST LOOK AROUND AT YOUR WORK PLACE, SCHOOL, LIFE AND FIND SOMEONE WHOM YOU CAN COMMIT YOURSELF TO LEARN FROM.

TYPES OF MENTORSHIP:

There are two major types of Mentorship, these are

a.      Formal; this referred to structured package/pattern of a given expertise to be transferred to a mentee in given specific time schedule.

b.      Informal; this refereeing to transferring of knowledge/expertise occasionally or whenever a mentor see a need of meeting a mentee, in short here Nature, life reality and Mentor’s wisdom matters a lot.

Anybody who wants to be the best/Updated/at the top and maintain such a position in any industry s/he need a mentor or mentors.

Life is the continuous learning process, as how you learned to be born and now we see you, and how you will learn to die and pass the test of getting away, thus in daily life you need to learn learning and because you won’t get everything from Formal education syllabuses then you Other life reality teachers and those are whom we call them MENTORS.

There are different Benefits of Mentoring/Mentorship, this vary from individual capacity to organization level.

Ø  Nurturing people to set new records/standards/Qualities and news!

Ø  Maintaining a certain capacity/potential/talents/skills in an organization, that is why we need another one like you in the company, so that when you leave, there will someone remaining to do what you was doing.

Ø  Transferring knowledge/experience/expertise from one generation to another and it might from older generation to younger generation which is common or vice versa, which is applicable nowadays and we call it “Reverse Mentoring”.

Role Model is a person whose behavior, example, dignity, image, or success is or can be emulated by others, especially by younger people. That is to say other people are aspiring to be like the one who they admire and is not necessary to have any relationship.

Teacher is a person who is having a knowledge in a certain area of study and is trained/equipped with special skills called “Teaching Methodologies” to transfer that knowledge to others. There are can be a relationship between a teacher and a student but it is just formal relationship!

Coach is the person who teach/impart and help in a mode of supervising or working with the student until when a student is capable of what is supposed to know or to do.

Having say so, A mentor can be Role Model, though not every role model can be a mentor, hardly the teacher with added closely relationship, though not every formal teacher can be a mentor and is a coach though not everybody called Coach can a mentor.

Effectiveness of Mentorship can be fostered by

a.      Smartness of a mentor and Sharpness of a mentee

b.      Willingness of a mentor and Humbleness of a mentee

c.       Proud of a mentor about a mentee and Eagerness of a mentee and proud of his or her mentor

d.      Shareable Visions, Mutual discipline and Respect, Active consciousness and Seriousness in whatever they are doing

e.      Truth, Honest and passion of both of them in a given realm of learning and life realities

That is just a summary of the knowledge about Mentoring and Mentorship!

There are lot to learn, find books, browse sites and talk to people then you will learn more and more!

Appreciations: I have prepared these notes in my capacity, also with a help of Online Dictionary, Wikipedia, Mentorship sites and books.

King Chavala-Mc

Twitter @kingchavala

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e-mail; lacs.project@gmail.com

*TAFSIRI NZURI YA MAFANIKIO*

Habari zenu!!
Maishani mwetu zipo hulka nyingi sana na nyingine huzaa tabia nzuri au hatari,kila mmoja anatamani kufanikiwa sana na kuwa na kila kitu akitakacho....lakini jambo moja ambalo nimekuwa nalitafakari maishani mwangu ni hili,naishi ili iweje na mwisho wa maisha yangu utakuwaje? Nini kitasemwa au kuandikwa kuhusu mimi,naam nitasema nini mbele ya kiti cha enzi?
Na haya ndio mambo niliyojifunza na ninatamani kushare na wenzangu, Mafanikio sio magari na majumba,ila hayo ni matunda ya mafanikio,ukifanikiwa kuwa hivyo vyote ni vema sana lakini bado hicho siyo kipimio cha mafanikio....ni kama vile ukiamua kupika wali au ubwabwa,kwa hicho chakula kutoa harufu haizuiliki,ila hujapika ili upate harufu,basi na mafanikio hupimwa kwa ndoto au malengo uliojiwekea kufikiwa,na hata iweje hatuwezi kupimwa kwa kujifananisha na wengine kama tumefanikiwa au lah maana kila mmoja ana ndoto zake,kila mmoja ana makusudi yake na kila mmoja ana yake yakuyatimiliza!!
Usije ukaumia sana maishani kwa kujikakamua kupita kiasi,wala usije ukawagombanisha watu ili upate sifa kwa mmoja wao,wala usijitahidi kuwaonyesha watu vile usivyo!!
Usijisikie vibaya classmate wako akinunua gari ama kujenga kabla yako,au usikasirike mwimbaji mwenzio akitoa albamu nne hali wewe una moja,ama akialikwa hata nje ya nchi na wewe hujakwenda popote!
Maisha ni kama mtihani,sasa usijaribu kuangalizia majibu maana kila mmoja ana karatasi yake ya maswali!
Iko neema kumsaidia kila mmoja kufikia ndoto zake,kama akiwa consistent!
Kwanini nimesema hayo, nimeona katika maisha haya tunajitahidi mno kushindana,kusemana na kuhukumiana pasipo sababu,hivi mtu mwenye ndoto ya kutengeneza roketi na yule mwenye ndoto ya kujenga nyumba inayotembea,kama wakikamilisha ndoto zao watakuwa sawa??
Muhubiri amesema kuna mambo ameyaona chini ya jua nayo ni ubatili mtupu,akasema sio wenye akili ndio hufanikiwa ama wenye mbio sana ndio hupata medani,maana kuna wakati wale waouvu kabisa ndio hupata nafasi hivyo baki kwa njia ya hatma yako,usijitahidi kushindana na yeyote wala kutupa mawe kwa wengine!!
N.B; Sifurahii sana magomvi,ila najua yamkini yasiepukike,sasa kama ukipishana na mtu kwa namna yeyote ile usikimbilie kusema na kutangaza kila mahali ama kuandika kila mahali,tena wengine huenda mbali zaidi na kuingia kwa mitandao ya kijamii na kufungua akaunti mpya kwa majina mengine,yamkini kijana akajifanya binti na kuanza kutupa mawe kwa mwenzake,huo nao ni ubatili,maana kwa kufanya hivyo unakuwa umejifungia minyororo mwenyewe,jifunze kutafuta suluhu na kukaa kimya,ukiwa mwepesi wa kuongea sana kuhusu wengine kwa ubaya,saa utakayopatana naye tena mtu huyo hautakuwa na amani kila uonapo yote uliyomfanyia,na kwa kukosa amani moyoni ni kukosa mafanikio!!!

*Ni vema sasa ukafanya mambo yale ambayo yanakupa amani na utulivu maishani mwako,wombee wenzako wafanikiwe katika ndoto zao,usijisifu wala kusema wengine ni kitu gani ila wewe,maisha ni hatua na mafanikio ni mzunguko!!
Natamani tupendane kweli na kusaidiana na kushauriana katika kila hali,maana maisha haya si ya kudumu!!
Yamkini Mungu amekupa fedha ili uwasaidie wengine, lakini kinyume chake imekuwa fimbo kwa masikini,angalia sana yamkini pia hapo kwako zinapita tu-Muhubiri 2:26!

**Basi mafanikio ya kweli ni kuweza kuishi ndoto zako au aina ya maisha upendayo,kuwa na amani na watu wote na kumpendeza Mungu,kuwasaidia wenye uhitaji na kuwatia moyo wakuzungukao na na kuishi kwa staha pasipo kuwakwaza wengine,unaweza fanya yote haya hata kama unafedha kidogo sana,ilimradi moyo wako una amani na maisha unayoishi,basi fanya bidii ili uzidi kustawi katika yale uyatamaniyo kesho,amen**
MUNGU AWABARIKI SANA WANAOFANYA KAZI ZAO NA KUJITAHIDI KUWASAIDIA WENGINE KWA MAOMBI,USHAURI NA HATA KWA MALI,NINA HAKIKA THAWABU YENU IPO!!

Na King Chavala
0713883797

Chavala Ideas Platform to launch "LADIES TALENTS BATTLE" on 13rd OCt 2013 in Dar!!!

“LADIES TALENTS BATTLE” Series

IDEA CONCEPT NOTE

What is it?

This is the special project aiming to discover, nature, nourish, brand and place on market board, different talents such as singing; playing different music instruments; dancing; dramatizing; fashion and designing; story telling; poetry; comedy; moderation and all other natural talents that are lying within ladies’ natural potentials along with spreading the good news, new hopes and new motivation to themselves (Ladies at large) and the whole community concerning different sensitive issues that are termed as challenging challenges within the society of ladies and at the end to leave them with clear understanding and confidence about themselves for the Glory of Kingdom of God.

Why is it?

Because they have talents and their talents are real, why not creating the room/platform for them to manifest fully?.... Yes! no more hiding, no more trying, it the time to it for real! Personally I believe that giving them a unique and zoomed platform for them to show what they have, it will encourage many of them who are still hesitating to start doing something; it will enforce those who are doing to be more serious and it will give the society a special eye (consideration) to them.

Why now?

It has to be done now because the right time is always now and the vision has come very clearly for now generation. In the other side there are several groups of NGOs, world religions and the so called Gender activists are very busy feeding our ladies with negative information, negative beliefs and negative perspectives about them and that may yield the society of lesbians and women who has completely negative perceptions toward their husbands if they got married, and so we ought and we must do something for the sake of our future. One Wiseman said “The triumph of evil grows when good people are doing nothing”

How will it be?

All of our activities in this project will be done in a form of a special campaign by which there will be special Concerts and tours in different places such as churches, schools and higher learning institutions. Furthermore there will be a special TV program/show that will comprise different issues including feedbacks of concerts and tours from different fields, hope that will help millions of ladies to be informed all over the country. There will also be a magazine and small bulletins with different information that can help them read slowly and understand.

Where to be done?

It is to be done in Tanzania and we have choose to start in the largest city of Dar es salaam; all activities and tasks will be done in Tanzania and all requirements we need will be found in Tanzania, Local media to be used and the magazine and bulletins will emanate from Tanzania.

Objectives;

There are vast of objectives but here are major of them;

v  To discover, nature, equip, coach, exercise, brand and market all the natural talents that are lying within ladies potentials

v  To zoom and place different ladies with different potentials on top where everybody can see, and thus whoever will be in need of such potentials will easily sight out.

v  To equip them with truth, moral and our country’s civilization as they grow and understand more about themselves and their roles in their society.

v  Life coaching; Carrier guidance and individual capacity building

v  To nature and produce true patriot of African natural beauty, who are futuristic and have bet to remain pure until when they got legal permit (Marriage)

v  To prepare brave leaders who can stand for what they know and believe is true and legitimate, ladies who can utilize the ample of their potentials to educate themselves and others in the society and the whole society at large.

Expectations;

To see ladies who are proud to be who they are, proud of their talents and other potentials that they have, ladies who can’t abase themselves and can’t compromise to ungodly matters; ladies who can’t trade their humility such as offering sex in order to get what they deserved to get by just who they are such as Jobs that they are qualifying to, pass mark in schools and access to different leadership posts. To see ladies who are proud of their natural African beauty, patriot of their culture, ladies who have pledged to remain pure and the one who have aimed to be good women and best wives in future; To see ladies who will say NO! to western cultures and abase whites’ civilization which abuses our civilization, ladies who will work hard than harder and not ladies who will wait to receive from men because that might be very lazy society.

Participants;

Everybody in our society has to be part of this project for the results of it will benefit the whole society….let the church be ahead in praying for them and wishing good for them to succeed……let ladies with different talents and potentials be ahead on stage and others be down watching and learning from them and from what they are doing…let others support the project in all spheres such as financially, morally, intellectually and psychologically….let the parents encourage their children especially their daughters to work hard on their talents and to have sense of future with whatever they are doing….let the government support them by any means possible and practical……let the media be ahead on promoting such talents and airing the contents of presentations and the society as the whole will be participating by altering positively what they have learned!

Author’s note

This is the vision that has come to me very clearly that we have to do something to support this natural potentials which most of them are living unutilized and are buried unleashed. It is true that there are different few platforms where gifts and talents are being natured and traded but that is not enough compared to reality, it is the fact that female mankind is bigger that male mankind but in manifestation of different potentials female mankind are not clearly seen while they are the one who shape the future of any society for what they feed their babies;

 Sex business, drug abuse, moral deterioration, early pregnancies and artificial beautification is the result of Identity crisis among our people including this group (ladies) now we can’t just stay idle complaining but we have to do something about it, I believe if female mankind will be empowered, motivated, natured and well informed then the whole society will be strong and futuristic. It is my desire to see different gifts and talents by Tanzanian ladies excelling and shinning out to the world, promoting our country, our culture and our God!

Personally I have strong trust over ladies and women for my mother has proven it into my life, I have seen the need (other call it a challenge), I have sited out a solution and I am ready to invest my intelligent, my creativity, my time and my finance over this matter just to see a better futuristic society that will cater, maintain and keep our true values in generations to come for the sake of the Glory of God in Tanzania.

It might be very minute to the world but I am sure it will mean a lot to someone who will be the beneficiary of this project, I won’t stay idle complaining to issues that I am capable of doing something, so no matter what I will do something anyway and THIS IS IT…my purpose is my destiny, I am a solution to whatever challenge that counterfeit with my natural potential, YES! I live for mankind!

Conclusion;

Hope the idea is clearly understood and you are already challenged and you are thinking to do something, Yes! This is the right time and you must do something that is lying within your capacity. Whatever opinions, advise and contributions that you think can be of great importance to this project, please you are welcome and above all you are very invited to be part of this new movement.

Idea & Concept note by

Chavala Ideas Platform

Fredy E. Chavala <King Chavala-MC>

+255 713 883 797

E-mail; lacs.project@gmail.com

http://chavalamedia.blogspot.com

UNAFIKI ULIOJIFICHA NYUMA NA MANENO YA MARAFIKI... "TUKO PAMOJA SANA"!!!

SALAM KWA WOTE!
Na amini watu wote tuko vizuri na bado tunakazana kuzifikia ndoto za maisha yetu!
Leo nimesukumwa kuzungumzia jambo moja hapa ambalo naona likiachwa hivyo litakuwa tatizo,tena tatizo kubwa.

UTANGULIZI;

Katika haya maisha hakuna mtu anaweza kuishi peke yake, sio tu kwa maana ya mwenza wa maisha ila namaanisha bila mtu mwingine yeyete, maana huwezi kuwa kila kitu na huwezi kufanya kila kitu mwenyewe kihusuyo maisha yako...una ndoto yako ya kumiliki Chuo kikuu ni sawa, lakini kuliweka hilo wazo kwenye maandishi ya kusomeka unahitaji watalaamu wa kuandika, kabla hujaanza kufanya lolote, unatakiwa upate mwongozo kwa wale waliotangulia na hapo unahitaji watu wengine.....kwa ufupi kila hatua utakayopiga utawahitaji watu,aitha kwa kuwaomba au kuwaajiri kwa maana ya kuwapa kazi na kuwalipa. hata ukitaka tu kutoka kwenda mjini lazima uhitaji dereva na konda na hata kama una gari binafsi kuna saa utamuhitaji muuzaji wa mafuta....KIMSINGI "KUISHI" NI KURAHISISHIANA MAJUKUMU KWA KILA MMOJA WETU KWA FAIDA YA KILA MMOJA WETU!.
Kwa msingi huo nataka utambue kuwa UNAHITAJIKA KUWASAIDIA WENGINE kama vile ambavyo na wewe UTAWAHITAJI WENGINE KUKUSAIDIA kufikia ndoto za maisha yako!

DHANA YA MAISHA;
Katika maisha yetu hakuna hata mmoja wetu ambaye yuko sawa na mwengine kwa maana ya makusudi ya kuishi kwake, kila mmoja alizaliwa peke yake (hata mapacha kila mmoja alitoka kwa wakati wake); kwa staili yake na hata sasa kila mmoja ana ndoto zake na anaishi maisha yake. Ukilitambua hili hutamuonea wivu mwenzako katika moja ya ndoto zake,ila na wewe utatia bidii katika za kwako ila ikifika saa ya kusema ama kuonyesha ni kwa kiasi gani amesonga na ndoto zake na wewe utakuwa na ya kwako ya kusema. Ubaya ni kwamba watu wengi hawajitambui, kwa hiyo wanafanya maisha yanakuwa magumu sana huku duniani,maana mtu mmoja anataka kufanya kila kitu na kwasababu anabahatisha katika kila, basi atakuwa anajitahidi kumkwamisha kila anayejaribu au kufanya kama yeye!


UNAFIKI NISIOUPENDA.....
Kama umejitambua na unajiheshimu ni wazi kuwa na watu wanatambua hilo na sawasawa na kujiheshimu kwako ndio na watu wanavyokuheshimu. Ukiona mtu amekufuata na kukuuliza jambo lolote lile aitha anataka kulifahamu ama anataka ushauri wako au zaidi anaomba ushiriki wako....basi imekupasa kwanza kumshukuru sana Mungu kwa nafasi hiyo, hata kama hutafanya lolote katika haya anayoweza kuwa anayahitaji....nasemma hivyo ili ujue yafuatayo;

KWANZA UMETAMBULIWA KUWA UNAWEZA KUWA MSAADA KATIKA HILO.
PILI UMEHESHIMIWA SANA, MAANA WAKO WENGI LAKINI UMEONEKANA WEWE
TATU ULICHONACHO NDIO KAZI YAKE HASWA,MAANA TUMEPEWA ILI KUFAIDIANA.

Sasa kama ni hivyo basi ukipata nafasi hiyo mshukuru Mungu na baada ya hapo Omba hekima ya namna ya kujihusisha na jambo hilo na kama unaona huwezi kuhusika kabisa unaweza kumjibu kwa hekima SAMAHANI MIMI SITAWEZA, na yamkini ni vizuri hata ukimwelekeza kwa mtu mwingine unayeona anaweza kuwa na msaada!

Sasa usije ukadhani kwasababu una elimu ya juu sana au una umaarufu mkubwa au una kipaji sana au ni kiongozi maarufu au pesa kuliko wengine, ndio maana ukafuatwa wewe HAPANA!!
jIFUNZE Kuwaheshimu na kuwakubali wengine katika yote wanayofanya yanayostahili heshima....na mara zote HEKIMA NA MAWAZO MAZURI hutokana na watu tusiowadhania!

SASA SIKU HIZI KUNA NAMNA WATU HUKWEPA MAJUKUMU NA KUDANGANYA KWA NJIA YA MZUNGUKO, MTU ANAOMBWA JAMBO AU ANASHIRIKISHWA AU ANAALIKWA SEHEMU FULANI....HALI AKIJUA HANA NIA WALA MPANGO MOYONI AU NAFSINI MWAKE KWA KUSHIRIKI AU KUSHIRIKIANA....ANAISHIA KUTOA MATUMAINI FEKI ATI....."TUKO PAMOJA" AU "HAMNA NENO MTU WANGU" na hapo unamuaacha huyo ndugu akiwa na matumaini makubwa na ikifika saa ya jambo lenyewe usitokee kabisaaaa!!

Sasa ninafikiri ni wakati mzuri wa kujirekebisha sasa, kama huna nafasi au huwezi kumsaidia mtu kwa namna yeyete ile wewe sema tu....SAMAHANI NDUGU KWA HILI SITAWEZA!
Naamini hii itakusaidia pia kuwa HURU na kuwa MKWELI!

HIYO TABIA YA KUMWAMBIA MTU TUKO PAMOJA NA KISHA NYUMA YAKE UNAMNG'ONGA SIO HATA KIDOGO....TUJIREKEBISHE!!!

Ukiona inakufaa unaweza kuendelea nayo lakini kuna wakati itakugharimu tena sana, maana watu huwa wanaambiana yote yanayokuhusu na kama ni mambo ya kukalaisha basi ndio habari husambaa zaidi kuliko hata nzuri!

MFANO HAI;
Kuna mtu mmoja mahali fulani alikuwa anajifanya yuko bize kuliko hata ubize wenyewe, basi hata akiletewa kadi za michango ya harusi au shughuli mbalimbali alikuwa akijibu aaah tuko pamoja aisee....basi zingine anachangia na zingine hakuchangia na hata zile alizochangia nyingi hakuwa anahudhuria....naam hata ikitokea misiba jirani alikuwa anatuma rambirambi na kusema aaah jamani tuko pamoja kisha anaondoka....basi watu walimvumilia sana na hakuna nafasi watu walipata wasaa wa kumsema zaidi ya marafiki mmoja mmoja ambao aliwachukulia poa na kusema...aaah nimewaelewa jamani....tuko pamoja sana!
Basi ilitokea siku mmoja siku moja alipata msiba wa Baba yake mzazi ambaye alikuwa anaugulia kwake, watu walipata taarifa za msiba na wengi wao wakasema hapa ndio mahali pa kumuonyesha UPAMOJA WETU....basi wengi walifika na kutoa pole na kuacha rambirambi (tena nyingi kuliko kawaida) na wao walisema tuko pamoja katika majonzi haya na kuondoka zao....basi kwa kadri muda ulivyokuwa unakwenda alikuwa akipokea rambirambi na pole za watu wanaokuja na kuondoka kama vile ile ni shule ya kutwa ama kituo cha kupigia kura....basi pale msibani palikuwa doro kabisa na hapo ndio akaanza kuona kimbembe cha "TUKO PAMOJA"....basi msiba ulikaa siku ya kwanza yote hamna kitu,basi akawachukua vijana ili awalipe na wakachimbe kaburi, na wao walichukua pesa na wakamwambia tuko pamoja na wao wakaenda makaburini na kuanza kupiga stori, mpaka siku ya pili inaisha baada ya kufoka sana ndio wakachimba tena refu kupita kawaida...naam siku ya tatu ndio ya mazishi hakuna hata mmoja anajigusa kwenda, na hapo alienda kwa kiongozi wa mtaa na kumuomba awaite watu, naam watu walikuja na wakaenda mpaka makaburini kimyakimya,hakuna mtu kulia wala kuzungumza na walipofika pale....watu walimtolea madukuduku yao yooote na wakasema ili iwe fundisho kwa wengine,kabla ya kuzika....ALALE JUU YA UDONGO ULE WA KABURI PALE JUU,NA HAPO AKACHARAZWA BAKORA ZA KUTOSHA MBELE YA MKWEWE,WATOTO NA NDUGU ZAKE NA ndipo ibaada ya maziko ikaanza na kila hatua ya kuzika alipaswa kushiriki ili ajue huwa inakuwaje....alisaidia kushusha jeneza chini na kabla mtu yeyeote hajagusa chepeo,alianza yeye kufukua mpaka alipochoka hoi ndio wakamsaidia,na hilo lokawa fundisho kwake na kwa wengine wote mtaani kuwa pesa sio kila kitu,ila unahitajika wewe!!!

ACHANA KABISA NA HUO UNAFIKI WA KUSEMA TUKO PAMOJA HALI HUNA HATA KIMOJA KINACHODHIHIRISHA UPAMOJA HUO!!!
(Watu wawili hawezi kwenda njia moja isipokuwa wamepatana.....hivyo hamna Upamoja wa maneno bila matendo na mapatano)

AHSANTE SANA, UBARIKIWE SANA KAMA UMENIELEWA!!!

Fredy Erasto Chavala
<King Chavala(MC)>
+255 713 883 797
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Twitter @kingchavala

HEKIMA KUTOKA KWA MY PS......"KABILA HALIRITHIWI"!!!

Habari zenu!
Najua mmemiss hekima za MY PS sana!
Nimepata bahati ya kukaa na kuongea nae mara kadhaa na nakumbuka moja ya jambo ambalo alilisema wakati ninamuhoji kuhusu asili yake ni hili;

Nilimuuliza wewe "Prosper Mwakitalima" ni mnyakusa wa wapi?(Maana ninajua kwa hakika Mwakitalima ni mnyakusa)

Lakini chakushangaza alinijibu akasema yeye ni "MNYIRAMBA WA SINGIDA" ndio hapo sasa tukaanza mjadala kuhusu makabila na kwa hakika ilikuwa ni maada tata lakini mwisho wa siku tukafika muafaka kuwa kabila halirithiwi!!

Hebu zingatia mfano huu
1st Kizazi;
A-family>>Baba Msafwa na Mama Mchanga,wanaishi Mtwara na wanapata watoto huko,
B-family>>Baba Mnyamwanga na Mama Mpare,wanaishi Kigoma nao wanapata watoto huko

Sasa huyu Mtoto wa A-family aliyekulia Mtwara kwa wamakonde anakuja kumwoa Binti wa B-family aliyekulia Kwa Waha kigoma na hawa wawili wanaamua kuishi Songea kwa Wangoni.....Sasa wakipata watoto,watoto wao watakua kabila gani??

Utagundua kuwa inabaki tu majina lakini ukweli ni kwamba asili zimeshapotea sana na sio jambo la kushikamana nalo kabisa,hiyo My ps alivyoniambia yeye ni Mnyiramba alikuwa sawa maana amezaliwa huko singida na kukulia huko kabla ya kuja Dar akiwa mkubwa tu,hivyo anafahamu zaidi unyirama kuliko Unyakusa.


VIPI KWA MFANO HUU;
Mkurya mmoja wa Mwanza  alimpa mimba Dada wa Kigogo na kumtelekeza Shinyanga(Kwa wasukuma),basi binti yule kwa mateso alipojifungua tu akamviringisha mtoto na kumwacha jararani,hapo Dada wa kindali alimwokota na kumpeleka polisi na hapo alitokea msamaria mwema akamuomba mtoto akamtunze na huyu ni Mkinga anayeishi Mtwara....sasa ikiwa huyu hajui mzazi hata mmoja wa mtoto na yeye ni mkinga anaeishi na wamakonde....JE HUYO MTOTO ATAKUWA KABILA GANI AKIKUA????

Ukipata majibu yatunze sana,lakini cha muhimu ni kuwa KABILA HALIRITHIWI.....Ila pale umekulia na kulelewa ndio palipokushape na kukufanya hivyo uko now na hakuna half cast wa kabila hata siku moja!!

Unaweza ukaendelea kutafakari na yamkini kuuliza ama kuchangia pia

By King Chavala-MC
+255 713 883797
http://kingchavala.blogspot.com

Samuel N. Sasali HAS THOUGHT DIFFERENTLY and HE HAS SHOWN A DIFFERENCE!!!!

Hello friends,fans and readers!!
I do believe that we are all doing well and we are fine!
Well then i am humbly inviting you very specially to CHAVALA MEDIA Blog

When the Sasali was vowing to MILEMBE

Zoomed edition

.....HE WAS CARRIED JUST LIKE A PIECE OF SOMETHING!!!!

Today i have a very testimonial post/news about a SAMUEL SASALI a.k.a Papaa /The Blogger/ The MC na may be you know him as TV Presenter,Motivational Speaker and May be Event Organizer but all in all he is the same guy, He is the thinker, ambitious and very unique friend of friends, allow me to declare my interest,Yes He is my Twin!

In most of his writings and presentations he has this say "THINK DIFFERENTLY TO MAKE A DIFFERENCE"...I real admire this say and i understand it more than what it says....Yes! among many things he has said and done this one was proved his uniquness!!

 ....Here Milembe was also vowing to Sasali....

 Samuel Sasali used that opportunity to give special offering to God, and he did that for two reasons and that are getting a beautiful girl and having another job as TV presenter...this also imply that the guy thought differently and surely the mass was very differnt!!!

Senior Pastor of VCCT, Rev.Dk Huruma Nkone with couples

Being a first born of a Long time pastor Rev.Nathanael Sasali and a brother of Pastor Mathew Sasali who got married 8 years ago with three children now, being MC of very many events and being involved in a number of relationship THEN last sunday we have all witnessed a DIFFERENT THOUGHT that is not relating to any of anybody and it has never seen anywhere else......YES THE BROTHER HAS FINALLY ENGAGED A BEAUTIFUL LADY,Doctor by proffessional and polite by nature; MILEMBE JOHN MADAHA.

Sometime back Papaa ever told me that....WHEN A POPULAR DATES....It is a challange! and from experience he said he will write a book soon after getting marriage and i have real realized that it is not as simple as someone can imagine....i am in the same trailer and i always pray that i don't mess on this matter.
....I WILL BE WAITING FOR THE BOOK FROM SASALI NOW!!!

 Special Lunch at Kawe beach together with friends!!

The way Papaa has configured and potrayed himself in his community, the way he has contributed his efforts and finances to others' visions and the level of his committment to his friends  and how he has touched people's hearts....it is what many friends and other people has experienced on sunday!!

Very many people came from different angles of the city and for sure the church was packed, great celebration, massive cameras of private and public mass medias and prolonged busy scheduled continuous party

Samuel intruducing Milembe at home party

The Event took place At VICTORY CHRISTIAN CENTRE TABERNACLE (VCCT) soon after the Sunday Mass.
 and THERE after  friends came together at Kawe beach for Lunch and because Samuel is the man of the people,then he just ate his lunch and went for live interview at DPC where there was an event "YOUTH TALENTS EXPLOSION CONCERT" and then he went to moderate another FUNDRISING Oriented Concert by Hananasifu Orphanage Centre Children who were also launching their DVD,at Victorious Church around Mabibo External then afterward there was a special dinner party at his father's house at Tegeta.

Hope now you can understand when i say this guy is unique is always thinking differently....can you imagine his younger brother married 8yrs back but still he had cataut to assist him dearly, The day of his engagement he has very many events to attend and made it!

I ARGUE ALL READERS AND FRIENDS TO SUPPORT THIS BROTHER VERY CLOSELY AND LOVELY AS HOW HE HAS PROVEN WORTHY INTO YOUR ISSUES...THE JOURNEY HAS JUST BEGAN AND THERE ARE LOT OF ISSUES TO DO FOR HIM....HE IS FAMOUS AND HE DESERVE THE BEST FOR WHAT HE HAS CONTRIBUTED INTO THE SOCIETY SO FAR.

Finally i would wish to encourage you all to support the work, the ministry and talents of my twin in any way you can but willingly...you can choose to be his friend in SOCIAL MEDIA, you can choose to Watch his Tv program "CHOMOZA" via Clouds TV at every sunday on 1800hrs, all read his educative posts in social media profiles or in blogs such as 
http://samsasali.blogspot.com http://chavalamedia.blogspot.com
And may be attending "FRIENDS ON FRIDAY"(FoF).

I HAVE WRITTEN ALL THIS TO YOU VERY CLEARLY AND CONFIDENTLY AS I AM VERY CLOSE TO HIM AND I EVEN MODERATED THE DINNER PARTY IN TAGETA, THE WEDDING IS ANTICIPATED TO BE ON 26TH OCTOBER 2013....All other detailed informations to be communicated to you via different medias including this one!!!


>>>BUT YOU CAN CHOOSE TO PLEDGE/SEND YOUR CONTRIBUTION NOW TO 0713494110
IN ORDER TO RESERVE YOUR SEAT or TO SHOW YOUR LOVE!!!

Samuel & Milembe

......THIS IS HOW THE DAY WAS CONCLUDED AT TEGETA!!!!

Thank you all and i wish him all the best in every single step untill marriage and ever
 BY
+255 713 883 797
King Chavala-MC